Quote of the Day

I was on Facebook a few minutes ago and a friend of mine put a quote from Bob Marley up as his status. First of all let me say I love quotes. I feel like sometimes people won't listen to what you have to say unless they know it comes from a famous or well known person.
The quote by Bob Marley was "everyon's going to hurt you, you just have to find the ones worth suffering for".

Right now that sums up what I am going threw so to a T. My husband is deployed to Afganistan, this is his 4th deployment, we have 5 kids and are in a new place, state, etc...for only a few months now. I have found people who wanted me to call them friends, I have found people I wanted to call friends. There are people in this life who you tell you that they are the one you can call if you need anything but you know deep down inside if you really HAD to call them, you would really feel uncomfortable doing so.
The reason I like this particular quote is because I know that despite all the things that are going on here while my husband is gone, no matter how hard it may seem it is, and I know that he is not the one who is hurting me but all the while he is worth all the suffering I am going threw.
He lifts me up and puts a smile on my face, makes me feel good and forget all the pettiness that goes on.

I want to start having a "quote of the day" or "quote of the week" blog! If anyone has any suggestions please let me know.

Military Spouse Appreciation Day

As a military spouse/mother of 5, it is so nice to know there are people out there that believe in us as well as our troops! A friend of mine sent this email to me today and it says everything just perfectly. To all the military wives out there, whether your husband is Active Duty Army, Reserves, National Guard, Navy, Marine, Coast Guard, or retired from any branch of the service. I want you all to know that there are people who remember what we sacrifice and it is appreciated! THANK YOU for your service, this email is for you!

The Military wife

When the good Lord was creating military spouses, He was into His sixth day of overtime.

An Angel appeared and said, "You're having a lot of trouble on this one. What's wrong with the standard model?"

The Lord replied, "Have you ever seen the regulations? It has to be completely independent, but must be sponsored to get on base, have the qualities of both mother and father during deployments; Be a perfect hostess to four or 40 at a moments notice, handle emergencies without military orders, cope with the flu and move around the world, have a kiss that cures anything from a child's torn valentine to a soldier's weary day, have the patience of a saint when waiting for the unit to return stateside, and have six pairs of soft hands."

The Angel shook her head slowly and said, "Six pair of hands? No way!"

And the Lord answered, "Don't worry. We'll make other military spouses to help. Besides, it's not the hands that are causing the problem - it's the heart. It must swell with pride, sustain the ache of separation, beat soundly when it's too tired to do so, be large enough to say 'I understand' when it doesn't, and say 'I love you,' regardless."

"Lord," said the Angel, touching his sleeve gently, "go to bed. You can finish that tomorrow."

"I can't," said the Lord. "I'm too close to creating something unique. Already I have one who can heal itself when sick, feed unexpected guests who are stuck far away from home during the holidays, and wave goodbye to its spouse from a pier or runway and understand it's important to the country that the spouse leave."

The Angel circled the model of the military spouse very slowly. "It's too soft," she sighed.

"But tough," the Lord said excitedly. "You cannot imagine what this being can do or endure!"

"Can it think?" the Angel asked.

"Can it think? It can convert 1400 to 2 p.m.!" the Lord said.

Finally, the Angel bent over and ran her finger across the cheek. "There's a leak," she pronounced. "I told you that you were trying to put too much into this model."

"It's not a leak," said the Lord. "It's a tear."

"What's it for?" asked the Angel.

"It's for joy, sadness, pain, loneliness and pride," the Lord said.

"You're a genius," said the Angel.

The Lord looked somber and said, "I didn't put it there."

~Author Unknown